Sunday, May 30, 2010

We've got a budding artist on our hands. He loves to color and those markers that only color on the special paper have kept him entertainted for hours. His imaginaton is growing and he is constantly thinking up new things, I heard him try and strike up a deal with Presley tonight, that he would give her , her pillow back if she would trade spots with him. I thought that was funny . Speaking of imaginations, when he was pretending to be an alien, remember that, well we got sent to ucla to an ENT specialist to check his ear. He definately has a whole in his eardrum and has mild/ moderate hearing loss . They are giving him another 6 weeks to see if the hole will heal on its own and if that dosent work, then surgery will be necessary to graft the hole shut. Man, all because he wanted to be an alien.
Anyway while we were at stake conference a couple weeks back, we took a stack of paper to let the kids draw and stay busy. I asked him what all his drawings were and this is word for word what he told me, i was fairly impressed


This is a shark, I had written the answers on top of the paper, but they didnt scan that dark.


This is Tyrone from the backyardigans, which by the way has got to be one of the best cartoons, and who do you think are behind those awsome voices, do you think they are kids?


Person


A pig spider

Turtle family





Wammer hammer doll, I think this idea came from wubzy






Pablo from the backyardigans, the funny thing is I was watching the show the other day and I can totally see why he drew his hat like that. I love how his little mind works


Pig






Live D's. Lots of his drawings turn into "live" something. He drew a candle and then added eyes and a mouth, theerfore it became a live candle. He just kills me!














Spaceship










constaltion. I dont know where he even learned that word, but he is using it appropriately according to his drawing.
Lately Mother hood has been very challenging for me. Presley has all of a sudden decided she didnt want to pee on the potty and she pees her pants 5-7 times a day. It was really taking a toll on me. I felt defeated , like a failure, crazy, and at my whits end. That had been going on for weeks, like 7 to be exact and i couldnt and still cant figure out the problem. On Monday she was sitting on my lap and totally just peeded on ME! She didnt get antsy or start to move around or anything, the flood gates just came open and there was pee all over me. That was when I started to be mad. I know she knows how to do it and thats the most frustrating part of it all. Come Wednesday I had a complete break down, because I was so frustrated, my poor kids couldnt figure out what the heck was wrong with me. We had to go into the beauty supply store and I totally have a tear stained face and my patience is thin. I keep trying to coral the kids and keep them from touching everything and I may or may not have had the most loving tone of voice, and then Rocs says"why are you being so mean to us", it broke my heart to pieces. That moment, I decided I can't keep feeling like this and I had to get a grip! I pleaded with the Lord for patience, because obviously a 2 year old peein her pants is makin me freak out, I didnt have much. So I reverted back to potty training her and for the past 3 days she hasnt had an accident. I told her if she stayed dry for a week we would take her to "the regular dance class"(thats what she keeps calling it, I'm not sure why , but it's funny)I have felt a renewed love for my kids and motherood in general. I just smile when I look at them and I think they are so funny.I never knew such little kids would've been able to cause me so much frustration, but they do, and then you step away from the problem take a deep breath and try it again. Good thing we love them endlessly and they love us just the same. If any of you mothers have encountered this I am very much open for advice. She has been potty trained since Nov. she couldve possibly had a UTI, which from researching, could very well be the cause, but any advice would greatly helped. I love my children so much and even in the midst of the tears of my frustration, thier sweet concern for me is so precious. I love being the mama to my kidos!!!











8 comments:

Alli said...

I love Rocco's drawings! He is really good. Tell him to draw a picture of me :)

☂niki. said...

those drawings are classic! i love them. he really is quite good. and the names and attention to detail is quite impressive. my favorite is the pig spider! lol. you need to put him in some art classes. seriously, i'm so impressed. he's not even in kindergarten yet!

you're a good mama, mandi. any mother would have been frustrated in your situation. i'm sure you were a lot less mean than the average mom. love you and those kiddos. see you soon!

Kristy Treible said...

Love it! Our lives would be soooo boring without kids!

Lindsay Jones said...

very impressive drawings. I can't wait to see you guys, I am really missing you!

Janae said...

You are such a cute Mamma & totally justified to have your moments of frustration. I hear of kids going through that a lot, so I'm sure it's common. I wish I had advice for you. Jackson did not potty train as quickly as Pres... I came to the decision that they'll figure it out when they're ready. Don't feel like a failure, that couldn't be further from the truth. You're awesome!

Jessica said...

I love the drawings! He did a great job on those! and I have to tell you, you are an AMAZING mother! We all go through times when we are so over done with everything, and all the little things really set us off. You are wonderful!

Alexis C. said...

Yay my Rocco is a smarty!! Love your kiddos as well.

As for mothering advice, because I have so much experience, you have some of the most patience I have ever seen. Even when kids are screaming and being crazy, you always seem so calm to me. You are human and are going to get frustrated. Luckily sweet Rocco will tell you when he can feel your tension. It then makes you a better mother for hearing his sweet little voice tell you to not be so mean. Its all a learning game I think. Also with Pres, who knows what it could be. Patience, patience, patience. She will pull through. Shes my girlie and I have faith for her!!

Love you so much and cant wait to see you!!

Shan said...

What an artist!!

That is how we potty trained Tay, we told here she couldn't do dance unless she could pee in the potty without accidents. Vuala, it totally worked. I feel your pain with potty training though. Chase just gets lazy when he is outside and pees his pants. It totally pisses me off! He is to old to do that. I wish I had advice for you, but I need some too. Good luck.

By the way, you are a FANTASTIC mommy!!!!!!